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This "we're each other's mirror" thing

This "we're each other's mirror" thing

Because what does that MEAN, exactly???

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Lori Kirstein
Oct 18, 2021
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This "we're each other's mirror" thing
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I understand it at last. Took decades.

First time someone said to me that we are one another’s mirror, I was confused. I thought, “So if someone hurts me, I’m someone who hurts other people?” Well, maybe, I thought. And I went about trying to be “better”.

Well, that was a sneaky way of “shoulding” on myself!

But then, because I like to test a truth by tak…

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